YouMeUnity
Tantra Healing Massage Days
Learn tantric massage techniques and enjoy the moment
The YouMeUnity Tantra Healing Massage Days – opening heart and body through touch
For singles, couples, practicing couples and other exciting constellations – see below for dates
Touch is one of the most ancient human languages – a language that many of us have forgotten in the course of our lives on earth. The good news is that we can relearn it any time! Tantra Healing Massage invites you to experience this special form of communication in all of its depth. It is much more than an ordinary massage: it is a journey to yourself, a way to connect body, mind and soul and to immerse yourself in a state of deep relaxation and vitality.
Our Tantra Healing Massage seminars are designed to gently introduce you to the world of mindful touch. In each session, you will get to know a new form of tantric healing massage – from flowing, harmonizing strokes to deep energetic touches. You will learn how different massage techniques can not only relax the body, but also release emotional blockages and increase your overall well-being.
What is Tantra Healing Massage?
A tantric massage is a conscious form of touch that works not only on a physical but also on an energetic level. It combines traditional massage techniques with tantric principles such as mindfulness, presence and devotion. The combination of gentle, deep and undulating touch creates a space in which relaxation, a feeling of safety and self-healing are possible.
Practicing Tantra Healing Massages can have a variety of positive effects:
- It enhances blood circulation and strengthens the immune system.
- It helps to reduce stress and find inner peace.
- It can release emotional blockages and deepen your own sensuality.
- It makes you more susceptible for feeling the energy flow in the body and strengthens your body awareness.
Giving and Receiving – Two Sides of the Same Coin
A key insight of tantra healing massage is that giving a massage can be at least as fulfilling as receiving it. By touching somebody consciously, you can experience a state of presence in which your own mind comes to rest. Sometimes it is even more than that: in the person giving the massage , unconditional devotion creates a feeling of bliss, boundless joy and ecstasy, which can also be transferred to the person receiving the massage.
And even if it takes a little practice before such states can be experienced, there are numerous benefits on a more mundane level too: Conscious giving strengthens your compassion, enhances your intuition and can dissolve walls that may have built up around your heart over a lifetime. Your self-love is strengthened and deeper connections with all living beings become easier.
What you learn in our seminars
Our Tantra Healing Massage Seminars are suitable for both newcomers and people who have been in the tantric field for some time. On each date, we delve into a different facet of tantric healing massages. You will learn:
- different types of massages, from gentle, relaxing touches to energizing techniques
- how to massage mindfully and with presence so that your touch can have a healing effect
- how your massage can have more impact through conscious breathing and intention
- how to build trust and connection through touch – with others and with yourself.
By practicing Tantra Healing Massage regularly, you can not only release physical tension, but also gently transform emotional and energetic blockages. Thanks to your relaxed mind, you can create new behaviours that feel freer, lighter and, above all, more joyful, and all of that using just a minimum amount of energy.
All dates for our YouMeUnity Tantra Healing Massage Days can be found below.
Previous tantric experience is neither a condition nor a hindrance to participation.
Everything is guided respectfully and gives you all the freedom to open your heart and to experience and respect your needs and limits on your own responsibility. We are holding the space for you so that you allow yourself to fully open up to who you really are.
Level 1: Beginners and Advanced
Similar to the Tantra Adventure Days or the Tantra Intensive Weekends, fun and enjoyment are of course part of the experience at the Tantra Healing Massage Days, but above all it is about learning, and with a special focus. We want you to go home and be able to apply the tantric healing massage insider knowledge that will be revealed to you during the seminar on your own afterwards.
Of course, Conscious Touch is also part of the whole – it is about experiencing and revealing yourself in the group on all levels. This creates the trust that is needed so that the participants can and would like to surrender to each other during the healing massage.
There will be breaks in between so that you have time to integrate what you have experienced or heard.
Dress code: Feel free to stay dressed the whole time – or take off what you want to take off. You decide for yourself – and it can be different every time. However, if you want to experience the maximum intensity of sensation, we recommend that you experience at least the practical massage part unclothed.
If the prospect of nudity of participants or talking openly about sensuality and bodily matters is difficult for you, you might be better off with an individual session or formats such as Waves of Eternity, Yoga Nidra or our Systemic Constellation Saturdays.
After the seminar, there is usually temple time for those who do not want to go home immediately, which you can spend in mindful contact with other participants if you wish.
Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).
Location: Erlebnis- und Erfahrungsraum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg
Please bring: Your own water bottle (you can refill it at any time with our Heidelberg spring water), lunch (alternatively, you can buy something tasty for yourself in one of the numerous restaurants nearby during the lunch break)
Your contribution: regular 150 € per Tantra Healing Massage Day, reduced 110 €, sponsorship ticket 190 €.
We find solutions for real financial emergencies, because no one should be excluded just because of money!
Registration: info@youmeunity.com
Time: 11:00-19:30 (arrival from 10:45, optional temple time until 20:30)
We are delighted that you are letting yourself be touched by our energy.
Big hug
Joy & Thomas
What makes a Tantra Healing Massage so special
Joy S.
The magical connection between two or more people, one who surrenders to the Tantra Healing Massage and the others who give them the massage, is something very special. When we really immerse ourselves in the flow, the boundaries between self and other, between giving and receiving, melt away - and there is only touch and joy.
Sometimes it's not so easy for us women to enjoy ourselves, as we are so conditioned to give in order to please the other person. Simply accepting without having to give anything in return can be a really big challenge at first (for men too, by the way), but a wonderful one. 🙂
Tantra Healing Massage Days 2025 and other massage-focused events
Learning Tantra Healing Massage (classic):
Sun, 23.03.25
Sun, 7.9.25
You might enjoy our Tantra Adventure Days:
Sat, 22.2.25
Sat, 5.4.25
Sat, 28.6.25
Sat, 13.9.25
Sat, 15.11.25
– a great opportunity to apply the massage techniques you have learned.
We introduce advanced massage techniques at our Tantra Intensive Weekends:
Fri, 7-Sun, 9.3.25
Fri, 23-Sun, 25.5.25
Fri, 29.Sun, 31.8.25
Fri, 3-Sun, 5.10.25
Fri, 28-Sun, 30.11.25
Special: Slow Sex Intensive Weekend for couples and practice couples: Fri, 2-Sun, 4.5.25
Also of interest: Massage and more especially for parents at Tantra for Young Parents live.
Sun, 22.6.25
Sun, 12.10.25
YouMeUnity
Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.
Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer of rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.
As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and acceptance are also part of this – as are all your supposed mistakes, shortcomings and your Buddha nature.