YouMeUnity
Tantra for Couples
An Intensive Weekend Workshop with Transformation Potential
Heart Connection for Two – Tantra for Couples who want to love more deeply
Your YouMeUnity Weekend Intensive Seminar for Couples and Practice Couples
Friday, November 13 to Sunday, November 15, 2026
This weekend is an invitation to encounter each other in a new way.
In a space full of mindfulness, presence and conscious touch, you can tune into a deeper level as a couple – beyond everyday routines, role models and familiar dynamics.
“Love begins where there are no more conditions.” – Unknown
We would like to encourage you to immerse yourselves in slowness together, in conscious sensing, in respectful intimacy – and to experience a power of a togetherness that not only connecting, but also liberating. Tantra is not a destination – it is a path: the path back to you. And you may very well take it together with your loved one.
It is precisely through slowness, thoughtfulness and loving wakefulness that you can enter magical spaces together in which heart, body and soul are allowed to dance alongside each other. These are spaces in which sustainable intimacy arises. Pleasure that heals. And a yes to each other that goes deeper than words.
The location that carries you
Some locations don’t just invite you – they remind you.
To consciously take time for yourself. For yourself and your heart space. For the connection with the beloved human accompanying you. For what wants to flow between you again or even more strongly.
Nestled in the Lower Rhine landscape lies the Leuther Mill, a lovingly restored building from the 17th century. The old watermill is not just a visual gem, but for many people it is a tangible place of power – carried by water, history and a quiet, nourishing atmosphere.
The river right next to the mill invites you to cool off in summer and accompanies you all year round as a place to connect with nature. With a bit of luck, you may encounter the majestic white herons that inhabit this habitat with a dignity all of their own.
Arrive, be held, enjoy
What makes this place special is not just the walls and landscape – but the people. The managing director and the entire team at the Leuther Mühle welcome guests with an open heart. Exactly the kind of open-mindedness that a profound couples’ seminar needs.
The vegan-vegetarian food is a real highlight:
lovingly prepared, incredibly tasty and nourishing for body and soul. Many people tell us that they are already looking forward to their next visit to Leuther-Mühle just for this.
Rooms for retreat & sensuality
The rooms are stylish, quiet and very comfortably furnished – some even have a bathtub, ideal for retreat, relaxation and time together between seminar blocks.
The Leuther Mühle is also barrier-free.
A small retreat – plus a touch of vacation
An added bonus:
Leuther Mühle is just 5 minutes from the Dutch border, and Venlo is around 10-15 minutes away by car.
Many couples take the opportunity for:
- a short trip to Holland
- a visit to a café or market in Venlo
- or a conscious extension of their Couple Retreat before or after the seminar
This way, it’s easy to turn a tantra weekend into a mini vacation for two.
Why Tantra for Couples?
Tantra invites you not only to meet each other as a couple – but to really see each other. Beyond everyday life and automatism, tantra creates a space in which touch can become sacred again, in which intimacy nourishes and closeness can grow.
You remind yourselves and each other to treat the other one more consciously, to listen to each other – with your skin, heart and soul. Tantra for Couples is not an erotic adventure on the outside, but a journey inwards. A journey to yourselves – and to each other.
What we would like to share withyou at “Heart Connection for Two – Tantra for Couples”:
- Mindful Touch & Tantric Rituals that (re)connect you as a couple – beyond technique and purpose
- Connection at Eye Level, in which intimacy, trust and genuine encounters can thrive
- The Power of Slowness – including immersion in “Slow Sex” to not only enjoy intimacy, but to feel it more deeply
- Space for Communication & Conscious Boundaries in which your needs are appreciated
- Impulses for your Everyday Life to integrate what you have experienced and deepen it again and again
- “Us Time” for the Two of You, without pressure, without having to do anything – but with a lot of dedication and heart
How "Heart Connection for Two - Tantra for Couples" can affect you
Double Check
Tantra for Couples - is this weekend for you?
- Are you a couple and want to deepen your connection - physically, emotionally and on a soul level?
- Or will you be attending as a practice couple - without a classical relationship, but with the intention of consciously focusing on the kind of relationship you would like to manifest?
- Are you longing for more closeness, liveliness and loving intimacy - beyond habit and everyday life?
- Are you looking for new impulses to grow together, to feel, to rediscover yourselves?
- Do you feel in the mood for rituals, touch and authentic encounters - without the pressure to perform, but with a lot of dedication?
- And at the same time, is it important to you that everything happens at your own pace - with clear boundaries and the option to say no at any time?
- Then "Heart Connection for Two" is the right place for you. Just as you are. With everything that makes you special.
The most important facts summarized
Heart Connection for Two – Tantra for Couples is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time.
Your Weekend Seminar includes
- Guided tantric massages and Slow Sex techniques
- Breath & Energy Work: explore and let the subtle sexual energy flow together
- Energy & Sound Healing
- Numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
- Optional: morning meditation / Yin Yoga
Location:
Seminarhaus Leuther Mühle
Hinsbecker Straße 34
41334 Nettetal (NRW)
A historic seminar house from the 17th century, idyllically situated on the water, close to the Dutch border.
Date and time: Friday, November 13, 2026 from 6:00 pm (arrival from 4:00 pm) to Sunday, November 15, 2026, 2:00 pm (departure until 4:00 pm)
Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:
- 390 € regular
- 310 € reduced (single parents, students, people on low incomes – nobody should be excluded just because of the money)
- 460 € Sponsor price
Prices board and lodging Leuther Mühle
Overnight stay including delicious vegetarian full board per person and
day in the
- Double room: 105 €
- Tent, seminar room or outside (on request by e-mail to the Leuther Mühle): 65 €
- A pitch for campers costs €75 per day and person.
Registration & booking
Registration is initially made through us.
- You register for the seminar at YouMeUnity and pay the seminar fee.
- After your registration you will receive a separate booking link from the Leuther Mühle.
- You can use this link to book your room and full board directly with the seminar house.
Number of participants
The Tantra Intensive Weekend is deliberately kept small and exclusive , because our focus is on a protected setting with plenty of space for depth, closeness and personal support.
Accessibility
The Leuther Mühle is barrier-free accessible.
If you have special needs, please contact us in advance – we will clarify everything else together with the house.
Please bring:
- your own water bottle
- Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
- optionally an item of importance for you to temporarily place onto our altar
Language: Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).
We are looking forward to enjoying time for love and feeling connected with you.
YouMeUnity
Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.
Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.
As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.