YouMeUnity
Tantra for Couples
An Intensive Weekend Workshop with Transformation Potential
Heart Connection for Two – Tantra for Couples who want to love more deeply
Your YouMeUnity Weekend Intensive Seminar for Couples and Practice Couples
Friday, November 13 to Sunday, November 15, 2026
This weekend is an invitation to encounter each other in a new way.
In a space full of mindfulness, presence and conscious touch, you can tune into a deeper level as a couple – beyond everyday routines, role models and familiar dynamics.
“Love begins where there are no more conditions.” – Unknown
We would like to encourage you to immerse yourselves in slowness together, in conscious sensing, in respectful intimacy – and to experience a power of a togetherness that not only connecting, but also liberating. Tantra is not a destination – it is a path: the path back to you. And you may very well take it together with your loved one.
It is precisely through slowness, thoughtfulness and loving wakefulness that you can enter magical spaces together in which heart, body and soul are allowed to dance alongside each other. These are spaces in which sustainable intimacy arises. Pleasure that heals. And a yes to each other that goes deeper than words.
Why Tantra for Couples?
Tantra invites you not only to meet each other as a couple – but to really see each other. Beyond everyday life and automatism, tantra creates a space in which touch can become sacred again, in which intimacy nourishes and closeness can grow.
You remind yourselves and each other to treat the other one more consciously, to listen to each other – with your skin, heart and soul. Tantra for Couples is not an erotic adventure on the outside, but a journey inwards. A journey to yourselves – and to each other.
What we would like to share withyou at “Heart Connection for Two – Tantra for Couples”:
- Mindful Touch & Tantric Rituals that (re)connect you as a couple – beyond technique and purpose
- Connection at Eye Level, in which intimacy, trust and genuine encounters can thrive
- The Power of Slowness – including immersion in “Slow Sex” to not only enjoy intimacy, but to feel it more deeply
- Space for Communication & Conscious Boundaries in which your needs are appreciated
- Impulses for your Everyday Life to integrate what you have experienced and deepen it again and again
- “Us Time” for the Two of You, without pressure, without having to do anything – but with a lot of dedication and heart
How "Heart Connection for Two - Tantra for Couples" can affect you
Double Check
Tantra for Couples - is this weekend for you?
- Are you a couple and want to deepen your connection - physically, emotionally and on a soul level?
- Or will you be attending as a practice couple - without a classical relationship, but with the intention of consciously focusing on the kind of relationship you would like to manifest?
- Are you longing for more closeness, liveliness and loving intimacy - beyond habit and everyday life?
- Are you looking for new impulses to grow together, to feel, to rediscover yourselves?
- Do you feel in the mood for rituals, touch and authentic encounters - without the pressure to perform, but with a lot of dedication?
- And at the same time, is it important to you that everything happens at your own pace - with clear boundaries and the option to say no at any time?
- Then "Heart Connection for Two" is the right place for you. Just as you are. With everything that makes you special.
The most important facts summarized
Heart Time for Two – Tantra for Couples is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time.
Your Weekend Seminar includes
- Guided tantric massages and Slow Sex techniques
- Breath & Energy Work: explore and let the subtle sexual energy flow together
- Energy & Sound Healing
- Numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
- Optional: morning meditation / Yin Yoga
Location: Erlebnis- und Erfahrungsraum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg
(depending on the size of the group also in another seminar house in the area)
Date and time: Friday, November 13, 2026 from 7:30 pm (arrival from 7:00 pm) to Sunday, November 15, 2026, 2:00 pm
(Or the following year: Friday, November 19 – Sunday, November 21, 2027)
Please bring:
- your own water bottle
- Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
- 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
- delicious contribution (preferably vegan/vegetarian) to share with the group
- optionally an item of importance for you to temporarily place onto our altar
- for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night
Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:
- 350 € regular
- 280 € reduced (single parents, students, people on low incomes – nobody should be excluded just because of the money)
- 420 € sponsorship prize
Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can stay in one of the many hotels nearby.
Language: Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).
We are looking forward to enjoying time for love and feeling connected with you.
YouMeUnity
Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.
Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.
As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.