Tantra, dancing, enjoying life, experimenting with sexuality and sensuality, practicing spirituality, allowing time for deep connection with yourself and others. Inviting love and open-heartedness.
New Year’s Retreat from Tuesday, December 29, 2026 – Friday, January 1, 2027, at Hotel Lethehof near Oldenburg, Germany
The magic of a tantric experience at the turn of the year is indescribable. YouMeUnity’s New Year’s Retreat means celebrating with a group of loving individuals in a sensual way while focusing on joy, healing and mindful, loving tantric rituals. You can take this turn of the year as an opportunity to express yourself, mind, body and soul, in a way you may never have experienced before. You will be in the company of other conscious men and women and all of you will help lead each other into regaining your power both on the human and the spiritual level. For this, we will use tantric rituals that will allow us to view ourselves and each other through the eyes of love. Liberating yourself through dance, experiencing sensuality in a healing and spirituality in a joyful way will be part of our journey together. We would like to invite you to let go of what you no longer need and embrace all the good things that are waiting for you in the new year.
During the days that we spend together we invite you to tap fully into the present moment. Feel how your frequency changes when you embrace every experience and are grateful for everyone you meet. This retreat is about fully enjoying yourself and others. In the process, you will be both questioning and enjoying your wants and needs and what lies behind them. You will learn to liberate yourself and fully enjoy your freedom while at the same time setting clear boundaries as well as respecting those of others. Enjoy your stay in our beautiful retreat location and allow yourself quality time with yourself, as a couple or in a group, maybe even during the seminar breaks (perhaps the participants will surprise each other with deep conversations or bodywork outside of the official program).
The hotel’s sauna, newly opened in 2026, is available to us during the retreat and invites us to integrate what we have experienced and bring the year to a conscious physical close.
The picturesque lake near the Hotel Lethehof with all its breathtaking nature is open for your exploration.
What you can expect at the New Year's Retreat
Tantric rituals, yin yoga, relaxing meditations and slow-love exercises, plus plenty of space for yourself and experimentation with new approaches and consensual practices.
New Year’s Eve is the highlight of our time together: a consciously designed transition that leaves room for ritual, dance, sensuality, silence and ecstasy. We celebrate life, say goodbye to the past and welcome the new – each in their own way, supported by the group.
Your retreat location: Hotel Lethehof near Oldenburg
A newly opened, barrier-free seminar center in northern Germany
Our New Year's Retreat will take place in the north of Germany in 2026. The Hotel Lethehof is the younger and at least as cozy brother of the renowned Hof Oberlethe. The hotel is still brand new and combines modern, high-quality architecture with a warm, clear atmosphere that is particularly suitable for conscious group processes.
The Lethehof is even more beautiful live than in the pictures: flooded with light, spacious, quiet. And available completely just for us. We are already looking forward to the delicious, high-quality, lovingly prepared food.
During the New Year's Retreate we also have access to the newly opened sauna.
A particular plus point of the hotel is its accessibility (except for the sauna), which enables people with different needs to participate in a relaxed manner.
For those on a smaller budget, there are additional sleeping options in the group room of the neighbouring Hof Oberlethe (approx. 8 minutes' walk). This way everyone can find the right balance between comfort and financial feasibility.
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Our New Year's Retreat is perfect for you if ...
- you want to spend New Year's Eve and the turn of the year in a beautiful, loving, open-hearted group setting
- you are looking for a balance between adventure and safety
- you are open or would like to be more open to surprises
- you would like to explore the topic of boundaries and awareness
- you like to touch or be touched
- you want to open up more to life and love
- you want closer alignment with regards to relationship issues in the new year
- you like tapping into the magical plane
- you are ready to let go of what no longer serves you and invite good, new experiences into your life
- you are ready to trust life even more
Level 2: advanced or – after consultation with us – tantrically curious individuals with the courage to grow quickly
Venue: Hotel Lethehof, Friedrichstraße 74, 26203 Wardenburg, Germany
Your contribution to the New Year’s Retreat (accommodation and meals need to be booked on top)
- 580 € regular
- 490 € reduced (for single parents, students, people on low incomes – nobody should be excluded just because of the money)
- Sponsor ticket: 660 €
Early Bird for 2026/2027
Until 30.09.2026 or until 10 spots are allocated
- 525 € regular
- 445 € reduced
- Sponsor ticket: 660 €
Registration: info@youmeunity.com
Time frame: Tuesday, Dec. 29, 2026, 18:00 h (arrival from 15:00 h) – Friday, Jan. 1, 2027 after lunch
Good to know: Your participation fee for our New Year’s Retreat includes the seminar, workshop materials and New Year’s surprises. Your registration is mandatory from the moment your payment is transferred onto our bank account or received by us through Eventbrite.
Accommodation & meals
Accommodation and meals are not included in the seminar price and are booked separately directly with Hotel Lethehof .
Prices for overnight stay per person including full board:
Single room: 140 EUR
Double room: 120 EUR
Triple room: 100 EUR
Dormitory in the neighbouring Hof Oberlethe (8 min walk): 80 EUR
After your registration with us you will receive all information about the booking on site.
Bring along
- unbreakable water bottle
- Optional: lunghi/sarong/pareo, favorite massage oil and something personal for the altar
Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).
Note: The YouMeUnity New Year’s Retreat is our biggest event of the year. If you are looking for a very small event with just a few participants, you are welcome to come to another opportunity during the year. 🙂
You will receive detailed information on the retreat via e-mail shortly before it begins. If you have any questions in the meantime, please get in touch.
We are looking forward to celebrating the turn of the year with you.
Sincerely
Joy & Thomas
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YouMeUnity
Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.
Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she helps people find the courage to discover their innermost longings and face their shadows. During spiritual events, Joy turns into a body or musical medium, often playing with fairy-like healing tones and frequencies, while expressing her Kali side when she is standing on stage as the lead singer of rock bands – thus covering the entire tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.
As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you during your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.