YouMeUnity

Tantric Connection -
Deep Encounter with Yourself and Others

Tantra Intensive Weekend Workshop for Singles and Couples

You are always connected – with yourself, with life, with everything that is bigger than you – plug into this source during your YouMeUnity Weekend Intensive Seminar

For singles, couples and other constellations

Friday, October 3 to Sunday, October 5, 2025 (for exact times and more information, see below in the info box “What else is important”)

This is what Tantric Connection – Deep Encounters with Yourself and Others is all about

This weekend takes you into the world of mindful touching of your most sensitive areas. This can happen on a physical, emotional or energetic level – ideally, you will enjoy touch on all three levels at the same time. This weekend of encounters is an invitation to experience contact in a new way: not as a means to an end, but as a path to togetherness – each of us for themselves and yet connected, allowing “feeling everything” to be your bridge towards connection. This is how it is possible to return to the essence – into this space full of peace that dwells within each of us.

Let yourself be inspired by ancient secret tantric touch practices from South India, Tibet and Kashmir – with rituals that honour the body, open the heart and bring you into contact with your innermost being. Allowing yourself to fall deeply into relaxation, even when the life energy begins to vibrate perceptibly in your body, is the true tantric art that you will be invited to practice during the weekend.

“The body is the translator of the soul into the visible.” – Christian Morgenstern

Experience in your encounters with others how intense a connection can be when you are really fully present. When you don’t just do something with your hands, but feel, hear and listen. When your heart and your body speak to each other and this encounter with yourself can also be felt by those you touch.

In addition to the focus on encounters with others, another special highlight is the deep connection with yourself. With the help of “Feeding Your Demons”, allow inner parts of yourself to be heard that help you grow beyond yourself. This transformative experience, in which you not only see your own inner shadows, but also nourish them with love and mindfulness, is based on a practice from Tibetan Buddhism: When we dare encounter our shadows – those forces that often work in secret and separate us from deep connection – they lose their threatening “demonic” form and transform into sources of energy for more presence and vitality.

What we would like you to take home with you:

  • Touch as the Language of Authenticity – How to communicate what really matters through presence in your hands
  • “Feeding Your Demons ” – a transformative group experience as taught by Tsültrim Allione, Tara Mandala
  • Boundaries & Intimacy – how you can enter into encounters without losing yourself
  • Sacred Touch – rituals from the Kashmiri, Tibetan & South Indian tantra tradition
  • Delicate Ecstasy – mindful bodywork that opens the space for inner expansiveness
  • Receiving instead of Performing – nothing to do and yet being deeply connected.

This module is not about achieving or learning as much as possible, but about a different understanding of touch: not as doing, but as being. We open up spaces in which you learn to listen with full presence – with your hands, with your heart, with your whole body. What happens when you no longer define yourself through your functioning, but simply receive – and at the same time show yourself in all your human authenticity?

Deep encounters and connections - even between people who have only just met - that is tantra

We take time for encounters and genuine intimacy beyond words, for moments in which you can feel: It’s about me. I am welcome. I can touch – and be touched – in a way that nourishes rather than demands, opens rather than overwhelms.

Many of the rituals we work with come from regions where the separation between body and soul never really existed. We remember to perceive the body as a sacred temple – and conscious touch as a prayer.

Moment tiefer Verbindung und Begegnung - im Tantra immer möglich

Good to know

The weekend seminar Tantric Connection – Deep Encounter with Yourself and Others is part of our rolling annual training The Essence of Tantra. You will learn to:

  • strengthen your self-love and intuition
  • trust sensuality, wildness and lust in you more and give these feelings more space in your life
  • be authentically and truly you
  • use moments of solitude as catapults into the feeling of all-is-one
  • strengthen your empathy
  • live healthy egoism instead of bending yourself over backwards for others
  • set boundaries in a respectful way
  • use energy work for the highest good of all beings for yourself and others
  • live the art of slowness instead of being rushed by yourself and your to-do-lists
  • live more gratitude, happiness and love
  • trust the flow of life more
  • immerse yourself in the field of universal love and thus also to play with or create/allow states of enlightenment

Tantric Connection – Deep Encounters with Yourself and Others is an Intensive Weekend Tantra Seminar for singles, couples and other creative constellations. Couples are of course welcome to take advantage of couple protection. Find out more here in our FAQ.

Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.

Tantric Connection – Deep Encounters with Yourself and Others is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time. You will be pushed to your limits and have exactly the experience that will take you further – in a safe space that is well maintained.

Your weekend seminar with a focus on intimacy, encounters and depth includes

  • guided tantric massages
  • meditation
  • Energy & Sound Healing
  • numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
  • if required: systemic constellation
  • optional: Yin Yoga

Location: Erlebnis- und Erfahrungsraum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg
(depending on the size of the group also in another seminar house in the area)

Date and time: Friday, October 3, 2025 from 7:30 p.m. (arrival from 7:00 p.m.) to Sunday, October 5, 2025, 2:00 p.m.

Language: Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).

Please bring:

  • your own water bottle
  • Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
  • 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
  • delicious contribution to share with the group (preferably vegan, so that everyone can participate – by the way, if you make the effort for preparing something great, homemade, e.g. salad or cake, you pay 10 EUR less for snacks etc.)
  • optionally an item important to you to be temporarily placed on our altar
  • for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night

Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:

  • 350 € regular for a complete weekend seminar
  • 280 € reduced (for single parents, students, people on low incomes – nobody should be excluded just because of the money)
  • 420 € sponsorship prize

Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can stay in one of the many hotels nearby.

YouMeUnity

Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.

Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.

As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.

Do you still have questions that you can’t find answers to in the Tantra FAQ?

Then get in touch. We look forward to reading from you. 🙂

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