YouMeUnity
Tantric Bliss -
Love that liberates. Happiness that lasts
Tantra Intensive Weekend Workshop for Singles and Couples
Bliss is not a state – it is an inner feeling of coming home. So we invite you to come back home, in the YouMeUnity weekend intensive seminar
For singles, couples and other constellations
Friday, November 28 to Sunday, November 30, 2025 (for exact times and more information, see below in the info box “What else is important”)
This is what we’ll be focussing on during Tantric Bliss – Love that liberates. Happiness that lasts
Can happiness ever stay?
We believe the answer is: Yes – when we stop trying to hold on to it. When we quit our search for it – and start cultivating it within ourselves instead.
This tantra weekend seminar module is an invitation to experience pleasure and bliss as states of consciousness, not as one-off highlights. It is about consciously allowing life energy to flow – and about recognizing that deep ecstasy does not have to be loud or shrill. It can also be very quiet. Gentle. Wide.
From a tantric point of view, the highest form of union is not in doing, but in being. When you relax, let go of control and allow your desire to spread, without a goal – then something new begins. An encounter with yourself, with the other, with life.
We dive with you into the mysterious and powerful world of Slow Sex and silent or gentle union (by the way, everything can be experienced very intensively on a purely energetic level). Let the calm, the slowness become a game. A game that can be life-changing. And deeply joyful.
“The secret of happiness is freedom, but the secret of freedom is courage.” – Thucydides
It takes courage to open your heart. Courage to stop locking yourself into old patterns. Courage to reorganize the categories of intimacy, desire and connection. And sometimes also the courage to dedicate yourself to silence – in moments when your energy is not yet ready to dance.
In the protected space of this weekend, we invite you to explore your very own truth: In encounters, in touch, in listening to your inner voice. And the ritual of sacred union is also not about external action – but about listening to what happens energetically between two souls.
Sometimes the greatest happiness lies not in an ecstatic yes, but in a mindful no. In the honesty with which you feel yourself – and at the same time open yourself up to the wonder of togetherness.
Your no is as valuable as your yes – because true ecstasy only begins when both are allowed to have space.
What we would like you to take home with you:
- Slow Sex & sensual meditation – how to slow down your system and deepen your capacity for ecstasy
- Desire & letting go – How to relax and trust the flow of energy
- Sound & Body – “Love Mantra” – working with voice and vibration as an erotic experience
- Sensual Journey – Playful paths to new qualities of touch
- Cycle of tension & relaxation – How pleasure can flow through you like waves
- Ritual of sacred union (Maithuna Light) – gently guided energetic encounter
These three days together are the tantra weekend finale of the year (for some, the New Year’s Retreat will be the tantric retreat finale taking place soon thereafter). Perhaps this intensive seminar is a new beginning in your way of experiencing yourself and your sexuality. Not about performance, but about depth. Not about technique, but about awareness.
We work with sensual rituals from various tantric lineages – including practices that are hardly known to the public but are deeply transformative in their effect. Whether you experience these rituals alone or with a partner: They invite you to immerse yourself in a level where ecstasy and inner peace are no longer opposites.
Good to know
The weekend seminar Tantric Bliss – Love that liberates. Happiness that lasts is part of our rolling annual training The Essence of Tantra. You will learn to:
- strengthen your self-love and intuition
- trust sensuality, wildness and lust in you more and give these feelings more space in your life
- be authentically and truly you
- use moments of solitude as catapults into the feeling of all-is-one
- strengthen your empathy
- live healthy egoism instead of bending yourself over backwards for others
- set boundaries in a respectful way
- use energy work for the highest good of all beings for yourself and others
- live the art of slowness instead of being rushed by yourself and your to-do-lists
- live more gratitude, happiness and love
- trust the flow of life more
- immerse yourself in the field of universal love and thus also to play with or create/allow states of enlightenment
Tantric Bliss – Love that liberates. Happiness that lasts is an intensive weekend tantra seminar for singles, couples and other creative constellations. Couples are of course welcome to take advantage of couple protection. Find out more here in our FAQ.
Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.
Tantric Bliss – Love that liberates. Happiness that lasts is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time. You will be pushed to your limits and have exactly the experience that will take you further – in a safe space that is well maintained.
Your weekend seminar with a focus on happiness impulses, coming home and accepting your own lust and ability to love includes
- guided tantric massages
- meditation
- Energy & Sound Healing
- numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
- if required: systemic constellation
- optional: Yin Yoga
Location: Erlebnis- und Erfahrungsraum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg
(depending on the size of the group also in another seminar house in the area)
Date and time: Friday, November 28, 2025 from 7:30 p.m. (arrival from 7:00 p.m.) to Sunday, November 30, 2025, 2:00 p.m.
Language: Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).
Please bring:
- your own water bottle
- Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
- 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
- delicious contribution to share with the group (preferably vegan, so that everyone can participate – by the way, if you make the effort for preparing something great, homemade, e.g. salad or cake, you pay 10 EUR less for snacks etc.)
- optionally an item important to you to be temporarily placed on our altar
- for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night
Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:
- 350 € regular for a complete weekend seminar
- 280 € reduced (for single parents, students, people on low incomes – nobody should be excluded just because of the money)
- 420 € sponsorship prize
Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can stay in one of the many hotels nearby.
YouMeUnity
Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.
Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.
As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.
Do you still have questions that you can’t find answers to in the Tantra FAQ?
Then get in touch. We look forward to reading from you. 🙂