YouMeUnity
Tantric Awakening
Discover Your Sensuality
Tantra Intensive Weekend Workshop for Singles and Couples
Discover Your Sensuality and Strengthen Your Self-love – Your YouMeUnity Weekend Intensive Seminar
For singles, couples and other constellations
Friday, March 6 to Sunday, March 8, 2026 (for exact times and more information, see below in the info box “What else is important”)
Your seminar location
In 2026, Tantric Awakening will take place at the SandsteinHof seminar house in the Palatinate Forest near Elmstein – a place of longing that makes it easy to slow down. Our recommendation: take the time to explore this wonderful area extensively. There is so much to discover in this magical forest imprinted by the Celts and Romans!
Even without leaving the seminar grounds, you can use the seminar breaks to enjoy the breathtaking views around Iggelbach and, depending on the season, relax in the natural swimming pond or sauna.
This is what our Tantric Awakening seminar is all about: awakening your sensuality and strengthening your self-love
- Sensual body & breathing exercises: Intensifying your perception – sensuality needs movement, breath and touch
- Strengthening your self-love with healthy self-centeredness: you are the most important person in your life
- Setting boundaries: stay with yourself and your own needs first
- The art of surrender: learning to surrender more deeply to the moment and to tenderness
- Playful rituals: touch, sound, taste and scent – rediscovering your senses
- Giving and taking: a different perspective
We dedicate ourselves entirely to reawakening and strengthening your sensuality. Through movement, breathing and mindfulness exercises, you will come into contact with yourself and your inner vitality – this feeling of being alive. You will become more aware of your body and your senses. This also strengthens your self-love, which has an effect on your entire energy field and leads to positive changes for you and in connection with your surroundings.
How does your life change when you put it entirely at the service of self-love and allow yourself to give free rein to your sensuality? Is self-love the same as universal love or what is the difference? Where do you flow with life smoothly, when do you reach your limits and with how much love, self-respect and goodwill are you treating yourself? Where are you currently still standing in your own way when it comes to allowing more ease, pleasure and love into your life?
With the help of ancient tantric rituals and current psychological findings, we approach the most important questions of human existence and allow ourselves to feel with all of our senses in a completely new way. And just to keep the mind busy as well, we’ll extract and deepen the most important learnings from Joy’s latest book, the self-love teaching “Feeling Loved“.
A guided, powerful tantric massage will help you to look at the subject of giving and receiving from a completely new perspective.
You will realize that it is possible to be completely true to yourself in friendships and partnerships, to be safe and confident with yourself and to be 100% authentic at the same time. Making room for moments of intimacy and you will learn how you to be considerate and yet not bend over backwards or lose yourself while connecting with others.
We discover sensuality and self-love individually and as a group and invite exactly the amount of touch you need to feel yourself intensely!
Good to know
This seminar is part of our current Annual Training The Essence of Tantra that repeats every year. You will learn to:
- strengthen your self-love and intuition
- trust sensuality, wildness and lust in you more and give these feelings more space in your life
- be authentically and truly you
- use moments of solitude as catapults into the feeling of all-is-one
- strengthen your empathy
- live healthy egoism instead of bending yourself over backwards for others
- set boundaries in a respectful way
- use energy work for the highest good of all beings for yourself and others
- live the art of slowness instead of being rushed by yourself and your to-do-lists
- live more gratitude, happiness and love
- trust the flow of life more
- immerse yourself in the field of universal love and thus also to play with or create/allow states of enlightenment
Tantric Awakening – Connect with Your Sensuality is a Tantra Intensive Weekend seminar for singles, couples and other creative constellations. Couples are of course welcome to take advantage of couple protection. Find out more here in our FAQ.
Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.
Tantric Awakening – Connecting with Your Sensuality is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time. You will be pushed to your limits and have exactly the experience that will take you further – in a safe space that is well maintained.
Your weekend seminar with a focus on sensuality and self-love includes
- guided tantric massages
- Energy & Sound Healing
- Numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
- if required: systemic constellation
- optional: time to relax in the sauna or swimming pond, morning meditation / yin yoga
Our seminar venue
The SandsteinHof offers you cozy rooms and vegan/vegetarian full board – ideal for resting, regenerating and feeling well looked after between the intensive sessions.
Retreat location address:
Seminarhaus SandsteinHof
Dorfstraße 97
67471 Iggelbach-Elmstein, Germany
Date and time: Friday, March 6, 2026 from 6:00 pm (arrival from 4:30 pm) to Sunday, March 8, 2026, 1:00 pm (departure until 2:00 pm)
Language: Our seminars are usually held in German. As soon as someone from another country is present who does not understand German, we switch to bilingual (German and English).
Please bring:
- Your own unbreakable water bottle
- Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
- optionally an item important to you to be temporarily placed on our altar
Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:
- 420 € regular for a complete weekend seminar
- 360 € reduced (single parents, students, people on low incomes – nobody should be excluded just because of the money)
- 480 € sponsor ticket
Accommodation & meals
Accommodation and meals are not included in the seminar price and are booked separately directly with the SandsteinHof (room + vegan / vegetarian full board – per person per day from 83 EUR).
After your registration with us you will receive all information about booking on site.
YouMeUnity
Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.
Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.
As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.