Tantra Weekend Workshop -
Faithfulness and Freedom

The Art of Lovemaking
Tantra for Couples

Faithfulness and Freedom – a tantric weekend seminar

For couples and practicing couples

Friday, 11 October to Sunday, 13 October 2024

Some of our most important weekend topics:

The highest art of sexual union is when a couple enters the state of timelessness together and for a moment merges with all that is. You lose yourself in order to meet yourself and the other one on another plane. If we merge fully with each other, ecstasy as a basic feeling remains a constant part of our lives.

It is particularly important for us to strengthen you as a couple. During all of the tantric exercises we’ll be doing together, you have the opportunity to do them in a protected environment, meaning: just the two of you – or you can, if you both agree, choose to experiment with others. You can make this decision anew every day, and you are welcome to make a completely different one every time. Just go with what you both feel most comfortable with in the here and now.


  • Love and freedom for yourself and your partner
  • Physical, mental and emotional presence
  • Energy balance in the relationship

What does loyalty really mean? Can I be faithful with my partner when I devote myself to somebody else? What about the emotional side of it? When I focus my energy on someone else in a loving way, will that be the beginning of the end of my relationship? What does love and freedom really mean – and how can I cope when demons from the past are dug up from deep within me with regards to my partner? Is jealousy a relationship killer – or perhaps even the key to more depth than ever before?

Playful tantric body exercises will help you explore the topic of needs, attraction, loyalty and belonging. We will all explore our own inner critics and embrace them lovingly. How much freedom, how much intimacy do I, does my partner need? What does this mean for our relationship and how do we want to live this as a couple?

We venture into unknown territory together, moving out of our comfort zone, and practise trust and letting things happen. We look at the planes on which we feel safe as a couple and strengthen this safety with the help of powerful tantric exercises. We also learn how to master the balancing act between the need for freedom (in ourselves and in others) and the yearning for commitment.

It is wonderful to merge with your partner and become one on all planes. But if we become too close, too much “one”, there is no other to ignite our curiousity, nobody else with whom we can marvel at the differences between the You and the Me. Therefore we practice making ourselves as independent of the other one as necessary, but only as much as possible, so that it feels good for both. By taking steps in different directions (which doesn’t necessarily have to be on the sexual plane), we paradoxically create more harmony and a common path becomes clearly visible.

In this seminar we consciously play with fire and explore ourselves and our loved ones in contact with somebody else. This can happen on the mental, energetic or of course the physical plane, depending on what you’re both ready for. To open up more to life we will be using strengthening rituals and exercises both for ourselves and for us as a couple. This way, both of you will be able to feel more peace, calm and relaxationy, which you can then take home with you and integrate it into everyday life.

Treue und Freiheit sind untrennbar miteinander verwoben. Wir brauchen beides, um ganz bei uns anzukommen

Good to know

Faithfulness and Freedom is part of our rolling annual training The Art of Lovemaking (for couples and practicing couples).

You will get to know or deepen the following with us:

  • guided tantric massages (such as for example breast massage, yoni massage, lingam massage)
  • freeing yourselves from old conditioning
  • balancing out your inner male and female parts
  • strengthening self-love
  • balancing love, intimacy and freedom in a relationship
  • Slow Sex and sacred, silent union
  • exploring the connection between ecstatic being and spirituality

May this tantric weekend seminar give you more trust in your relationship as a couple. Not despite, but precisely because nothing is certain in life. The more you are true to yourself and your beliefs, wants and needs, while at the same time lovingly recognizing and respecting the loved one’s needs as much as possible, the freer and closer your bond will become and the stronger your love and trust for each other will be. “Faithfulness and Freedom” is designed for couples and couples practicing together. Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time.

Your weekend seminar “Faithfulness and Freedom” includes

  • guided tantric massages
  • Energy & Sound Healing
  • numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
  • optional: morning meditation / Yin Yoga

Location: TraumRaum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg, Germany
(depending on group size also in another seminar house in the area)

Date and time: Friday, 11 October 2024 from 7:30 p.m. (arrival from 7:00 p.m.) to Sunday, 13 October 2:00 p.m.

Please bring:

  • your own water bottle
  • Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
  • 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
  • delicious addition to the buffet to share with the group
  • optionally an important item for our altar
  • for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night

Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:

  • 420 € regular per person for a full weekend seminar (reduced prices possible for people on low incomes – no one should be excluded for money alone)

Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can stay in one of the many hotels nearby.


Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.

Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.

As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.

Do you have any questions?

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