Tantra Weekend Workshop -
Sense and Sensuality

The Art of Lovemaking
Tantra for Couples

Sense and Sensuality – a tantra weekend seminar

For couples and practicing couples

Friday, February 21 to Sunday, February 23, 2025

Some of our most important weekend topics:

The highest art of sexual union is when a couple enters the state of timelessness together and for a moment merges with all that is. You lose yourself in order to meet yourself and the other one on another plane. If we merge fully with each other, ecstasy as a basic feeling remains a constant part of our lives.

It is particularly important for us to strengthen you as a couple. During all of the tantric exercises we’ll be doing together, you have the opportunity to do them in a protected environment, meaning: just the two of you – or you can, if you both agree, choose to experiment with others. You can make this decision anew every day, and you are welcome to make a completely different one every time. Just go with what you both feel most comfortable with in the here and now.


  • More fun and intimacy in bed
  • Boundaries that can connect, not separate – learn about communication and clarity
  • Self-efficacy and sex

If it is your desire to live a more ecstatic love life as a couple, to get even closer to each other emotionally and explore new, perhaps previously unknown realms together, it’s crucial to keep a close eye on your communication with each other. In human communication there is often a discrepancy between the verbal and the energetic or physical plane. But no matter what the words may promise, it is the energy behind them that speaks the truth. And that’s exactly what we will practice with you:

The more we dare to speak our truth, the more the different levels of communication can come into harmony, which will also be noticeable in your energy field. Someone who stands up for their own truth, regardless of what others may want, emanates self-assurance, inner peace and harmony. So: The more truth, the greater the capacity of bonding and the deeper the connection with your partner(s).

Clear communication is not only a prerequisite for good sex, but also for more stability in life and in your relationship. We explore how truthfulness and authenticity influence our (couples) lives, practice self-reliance and boundaries, which, when set lovingly, will not separate but connect you more strongly with yourself and others.

We invite sensuality to accompany and guide us in this seminar, as well as joy and ease. These powerful three will not only bring you closer to each other in the bedroom, but also help you feel more at home with yourselves and thus radiate more peace and happiness in every moment.

The tantric exercises that we will be doing together in this seminar (including guided massages) will make you go home with a long-lasting feeling of overall well-being.

Sinnliche Leichtigkeit - so leicht wie diese Frau mit ihren Schmetterlingsfreunden, kannst auch du dir erlauben, dich zu fühlen

Good to know

Sense and Sensuality is part of our recurring annual training The Art of Lovemaking (for couples and practicing couples).

You will get to know or deepen the following with us:

  • guided tantric massages (such as for example breast massage, yoni massage, lingam massage)
  • freeing yourselves from old conditioning
  • balancing out your inner male and female parts
  • strengthening self-love
  • balancing love, intimacy and freedom in a relationship
  • Slow Sex and sacred, silent union
  • exploring the connection between ecstatic being and spirituality

This tantra weekend seminar is designed to help you remember in every moment that life can be fun, ease and full of sense and sensuality. It is designed for couples and practicing couples. Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time.

Your “Sense and Sensuality” weekend seminar includes

  • guided tantric massages
  • Energy & Sound Healing
  • numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
  • optional: morning meditation / Yin Yoga

Location: TraumRaum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg, Germany
(depending on group size also in another seminar house in the area)

Date and time: Friday, February 21, 2025 from 7:30 pm (arrival from 7:00 pm) to Sunday, February 23, 2025, 2:00 pm

Please bring:

  • your own water bottle
  • Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
  • 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
  • delicious addition to the buffet to share with the group
  • optionally an important item for our altar
  • for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night

Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:

  • 420 € regular per person for a full weekend seminar (reduced prices possible for people on low incomes – no one should be excluded for money alone)

Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can stay in one of the many hotels nearby.


Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.

Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.

As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.

Do you have any questions?

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