Tantra Weekend Workshop -
The Angelic Paramour

The Art of Lovemaking
Tantra for Couples

The Angelic Paramour – a Tantra Weekend Seminar

For couples and practicing couples

Friday, 14 June to Sunday, 16 June 2024

Some of our most important weekend topics:

The highest art of sexual union is when a couple enters the state of timelessness together and for a moment merges with all that is. You lose yourself in order to meet yourself and the other one on another plane. If we merge fully with each other, ecstasy as a basic feeling remains a constant part of our lives.

It is particularly important for us to strengthen you as a couple. During all of the tantric exercises we’ll be doing together, you have the opportunity to do them in a protected environment, meaning: just the two of you – or you can, if you both agree, choose to experiment with others. You can make this decision anew every day, and you are welcome to make a completely different one every time. Just go with what you both feel most comfortable with in the here and now.


  • Healing your feminine parts
  • The opening of the lotus flower
  • Empathy, egoism and ecstasy

We tap into the power of femininity and practice devotion as well as letting go. When we, men and women alike, heal our feminine parts and recognize and appreciate the strengths behind supposedly weak attributes, our empathy will increase and lead us deeper into self-love. This in turn enables us to live a more intensive, loving partnership.

You will appreciate and worship the entire female body to slowly and gently make it ready for love. Tapping into the topic of dearmouring will also play a major role. In this module you will also learn how a sensual yoni massage can not only be used to give pleasure to a woman, but also to access very deep healing potential. We’ll be practicing for a whole hour or longer.

We will also take a close look at the tantric energy cycle and see how you as a couple can strengthen the (inner) woman and serve her with humility and devotion, which will empower the both of you.

One way for women to become more self-efficacious is to re-evaluate the power that hides behind rage. We – men and women – will allow rage to show itself to us in a completely new way in a safe environment.

In addition, we will use meditation and energy work to tap into the potential behind previously unexplored sources of female power (such as the cervix) and, with the help of our men holding us and taking care of us, allow ourselves to let go of old pain and grief.

We also take a close look at the role of our mothers and other female ancestors, practice forgiveness with the help of tantric exercises and will cut old cords (if necessary with the help of a systemic constellation).

And don’t worry: The men won’t be forgotten despite all the focus on femininity in this module. On the contrary: We will tune into possibilites for men to empower themselves even more, fully live their masculinity and potential by accepting their own feminine side with everything that entails.

Thanks to our tantric rituals in which we play with different attributes of femininity, at the end of the seminar you may be able to take home a completely new perspective on femininity.

Die Königin aka himmlische Geliebte stützen - eine der wichtigsten Aufgaben des Mannes in einer bewussten Partnerschaft

Good to know

The Angelic Paramour is part of our continuous annual training The Art of Lovemaking (for couples and practicing couples).

You will get to know or deepen the following with us:

  • guided tantric massages (such as for example breast massage, yoni massage, lingam massage)
  • freeing yourselves from old conditioning
  • balancing out your inner male and female parts
  • strengthening self-love
  • balancing love, intimacy and freedom in a relationship
  • Slow Sex and sacred, silent union
  • exploring the connection between ecstatic being and spirituality

This tantric weekend seminar invites you to change your perspective on femininity. Because only when women, with the help of the stability and security of their partners, allow themselves to live their feminine power to the fullest and confidently take their rightful place as queens, only then will the men at their side also be able to live their royal strength. “The Angelic Paramour” is designed for couples and practicing couples. Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING is just as suitable for newcomers to tantra as it is for those who have been in the tantric field for some time.

Your weekend seminar “Angelic Paramour ” includes

  • guided tantric massages
  • Energy & Sound Healing
  • numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
  • optional: morning meditation / Yin Yoga

Location: TraumRaum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg, Germany
(depending on group size also in another seminar house in the area)

Date and time: Friday, 14 June 14 2024 from 7:30 p.m. (arrival from 7:00 p.m.) to Sunday, 16 June, 2024, 2:00 p.m.

Please bring:

  • your own water bottle
  • Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
  • 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
  • delicious addition to the buffet to share with the group
  • optionally an important item for our altar
  • for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night

Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:

  • 420 € regular per person for a full weekend seminar (reduced prices possible for people on low incomes – no one should be excluded for money alone)

Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can stay in one of the many hotels nearby.


Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.

Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.

As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.

Do you have any questions?

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