Tantra Weekend Workshop
The Power of Self-Love

Training for love, connection and freedom for singles and couples

The power of self-love – your weekend seminar

For singles, couples and other constellations

Friday, 2nd February, to Sunday, 4th February 2024

Some of our most important weekend topics:


  • healthy egoism: you are the most important person in your life
  • setting boundaries: stay with yourself and your own needs first
  • father / mother / ancestor issues: free yourself from the chains of the past
  • Give and take – a different perspective

How does your life change when you put it entirely at the service of self-love? Is self-love the same as universal love or what is the difference? Where do you flow with life smoothly, when do you reach your limits and with how much love, self-respect and goodwill are you treating yourself? How can you rise your energy level even in challenging situations?

We busy ourselves with the most important questions of human existence with the help of ancient tantric rituals and current psychological findings. We also sum up and dive into the most important learnings from Joy’s latest book, the self-love teaching “Feeling Loved“.

A guided, powerful tantric massage will help you to look at the subject of giving and receiving from a completely new perspective.

You will realize that it is possible to be completely true to yourself in friendships and partnerships, to be safe and confident with yourself and to be 100% authentic. You practice moments of intimacy and will learn how you can be considerate and yet not bend over backwards or lose yourself while trying to connect with others.

In this module we will work with cutting chords to dissolve old entanglements as well as with family constellations. And with just the right amount of touch that you need to feel yourself intensely!

Selbstliebe stärken erweckt deine Urkraft und Sexualität

Good to know

This seminar is part of our continuing annual training for love, connection and freedom. You will learn to

  • strengthen your self-love
  • be authentically and truly you
  • use moments of solitude as catapults into the feeling of all is one
  • strengthen your empathy
  • live healthy egoism instead of bending yourself over backwards for others
  • set boundaries in a respectful way
  • use energy work for the highest good of all beings for yourself and others
  • live the art of slowness instead of being rushed by yourself and your to-do-lists
  • trust the flow of life more
  • immerse yourself in the field of universal love

This tantric weekend seminar to strengthen your self-love is designed for singles and couples, and also for other creative constellations. Love & Freedom Tantra by YouMeUnity is based on traditional Kashmiri and Tibetan teachings combined with modern sexual psychology.

The TRAINING FOR LOVE, CONNECTION AND FREEDOM is suitable for tantra beginners as well as for those who have been in the tantric field for some time. You will be pushed to your limits and have exactly the experience that will take you further – in a safe space that is well maintained.

Your self-love weekend seminar includes

  • guided tantric massages
  • Energy & Sound Healing
  • numerous powerful exercises from Kashmiri and Tibetan Tantra
  • optional: morning meditation / Yin Yoga

Location: TraumRaum Heidelberg, Hauptstraße 119, 69117 Heidelberg, Germany
(depending on group size also in another seminar house in the area)

Date and time: Friday, 2 February 2024 from 7:30 p.m. (arrival from 7:00 p.m.) to Sunday, 4 February 2024, 2:00 pm

Please bring:

  • your own water bottle
  • Lunghi/Sarong (if available)
  • 10 € per person per day for snacks and shared breakfast
  • delicious addition to the buffet to share with the group
  • optionally an item important to you to be temporarily placed on our altar
  • for overnight stays (please register!) sleeping bag, sleeping mat, towels and 20 € contribution towards expenses per person per night

Seminar prices for this weekend workshop per person:

  • 391 € regular (reduced prices possible for people on low incomes – no one should be excluded just because of the money)

Overnight stay: Some space is available on request in our temple room. Please ask us in case you want to choose this option. Alternatively you can choose to stay in one of the many hotels nearby.


Thomas Hochgesang is a tantra teacher and intimacy coach. He uses therapeutic as well as systemic approaches for his work and also involves the energetics as well as spirituality. His approach is intended to help strengthen your self-healing powers, freedom of choice as well as raise your energy level. For this, he uses profound meditation techniques as well as playful body rituals from the tantric tradition and modern psychological insights. By living in India for 5,5 years and undergoing Buddhist training, he was able to establish a mindset that enables him to emanate deep peace and tranquillity. His open heart helps him transmit this attitude to whomever he meets.

Joy S. is a musician, author and specialist in self-love. As an intuitive guide, she leads people to their innermost longings and shadow worlds. During spiritual events, Joy gives free rein to her vocation as a musical medium and plays with elfish, healing tones and frequencies, while she expresses her Kali side as the lead singer in rock bands – the whole tantric spectrum. Together with her husband Thomas, she provides a safe space for deep tantric experiences and supports participants in their self-healing process.

As YouMeUnity, we are offering to accompany you on your journey to yourself. We enjoy it so much to see people arrive at their innermost core. In doing so they are getting ready to embrace one or several relationships that can last and that are honest, deeper than ever before and 100 % heart-open. Such a secure bonding includes honest and appreciative communication, an open heart and a readiness in everyone involved to fully love themselves – and by doing so, learning to love everyone and everything on this beautiful planet, too. Self-confidence, courage, authenticity and embracing what is are also part of this – as well as accepting everything about yourself, even those character traits that you are not particularly proud of. And, of course everything that reminds you of your innate Buddha within yourself.

Do you have any questions?

Get in touch 🙂

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